Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
Valentine’s Day draws out the romantic in most of us. At the very least, it is a day that we would LIKE to have the romantic brought out in us. In a relationship or spending this Valentine’s Day alone, when Valentine’s Day comes to mind do you not remember the absurd little cupid cards we sent around to our classmates in grade school or the cards we created in class for our parents?
Several memories and reminders we have concerning Valentine’s Day and what it means to be in a relationship or not can have us feeling experience positive or negative emotions, depending on past relationships. Unfortunately, most of what feelings we experience, no matter what our relationship status is is brought to bear upon us by the repetitive thinking that’s ‘out there’ in the mass consciousness.
Don’t listen to what they’re saying. Do not listen if it does not lift your spirits and make you feel better about yourself. You’re excellent exactly the way you are.
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Valentine’s Day, whether you are in a relationship or not, can be a day where you experience the romance that is coming to you! However, you must be proactive about this. You are the one who gets to say and has the creative control over what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!
This is where a lot of us sleep on the job. We are waiting for the circumstances to mold differently for us. We’re waiting for him to take charge. We are hoping that if we give him enough hints, he will step up and finally get into gear. WRONG. Don’t do this. That is letting yourself be at the receiving end, instead of the causal end of your life. You make the decisions. All you need to do is make a simple request, to your existing beloved or to the Universe. Then, you’ll have to get out of the way. You need to let go of the how, the what, and the when of your request. Attaching yourself to the outcome is essentially resisting what you desire. You cannot say “Come in” with your hand pushing the door shut and expect it to enter. Maybe that’s easier said than done. But that’s why life coaching exists for those of us who need to get clear on why we’re failing to get what we want and then assist us in aligning with what we do so it can be delivered. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!
It comes down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not necessarily easy. Ask yourself “What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?” “What would be possible for me in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship”? Dream Big! Now begin to play in the vibration of how your life would appear and feel like if you were enjoying that now. Use your imagination – remember what you did so naturally as a child?
I am continuously truly moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I have attracted by way of manifesting my beloved husband. A little over 4 years ago, I was one of those people who had more unsettling closings to relationships than I’d want to admit. Then, I took this Attraction stuff seriously. I did the play/work. I removed my walls to love, got aligned and rapidly created the love of my dreams.
This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserved it. By the way, a relationship is an ongoing mutual effort, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.
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